About
Built for women who like women
A dating and social community for adult women who want to meet other women. Launched in 2024, run in-house, free to join.
What we're actually for
Most dating brands ask you to declare an ending before you've had a beginning. We don't think that's how it works.
The big apps run on one promise: find your person. It's a good promise. It also quietly tells everyone who isn't after that, right now, that they're in the wrong place.
Plenty of women want a date without wanting a wedding. Plenty want a fling, or a friend who understands. Some want all of it in a different order on a different week.
Meet women. Make connections. Have fun.
Deliberately open at the end.
What we stand behind
Four things, and we mean all four.
Come as you are
Femme, masc, butch, androgynous, sporty, glamorous, none of the above. Twenty-two or seventy-two. Nobody here needs to explain themselves or perform a version of themselves that isn't true.
No prescribed ending
A date might become a relationship. A fling might become a friendship. A night out might just be a good night. All of those count as it going well.
Grown-up, not solemn
This is an adult site for adult women. It can be flirty and funny without being crude, and honest about sex without being clinical. That includes women who are into kink, who get a room rather than a raised eyebrow.
Proud without the parade
Being gay is the baseline here, not the topic. No coming-out narrative as the default story, no rainbow wallpaper, no explaining ourselves to anyone.
Why there are actually women here
The bit most dating sites won't explain.
A niche dating site lives or dies on whether anyone's actually there. Plenty look busy on the homepage and turn out to have four women within fifty miles.
One community, several front doors
Members join through our brand and through partner sites, and everyone lands in the same lesbian community.
You only ever see us
Whichever door someone came through, they see their own brand. You see Lesbian Flings, and nothing else.
Real numbers where you live
You're matched with women in this community, near you, with interests like yours. There are enough of them for that to mean something.
665k rated members across the community. That's why "women near you" is a statement rather than a hope.
See who's nearbyWhere we operate
Four main countries, and members in most towns and cities across all of them.
- United Kingdom
- Canada
- United States
- Australia
- Launched
- 2024
- Minimum age
- 18+
- Core countries
- 4
- Cost to join
- Free
Run by an in-house team ever since.
No exceptions, checked at sign-up.
UK, Canada, the USA and Australia.
Not a trial. A Classic account has no end date.
Who runs Lesbian Flings?
HubPeople, a dating and social discovery company that builds and runs its own brands rather than licensing someone else's. Lesbian Flings launched in 2024 and is run by an in-house team.
Why do I see members who joined through a different site?
Lesbian Flings is part of a shared lesbian community. Members from our own brand and from partner sites all join the same pool, which is why there are women near you rather than three profiles and a lot of empty space. You only ever see Lesbian Flings, and you only ever meet women in this community.
Is Lesbian Flings only for lesbians?
It's for women who like women. Lesbian, bi, queer, still working it out, and everyone in between. What matters is that you're an adult woman looking to meet other women.
Do I have to be looking for a relationship?
No, and you don't have to be looking for a fling either. Some women here want something serious, some want something casual, some want friends and some genuinely haven't decided. All of that is normal here.
Where does Lesbian Flings operate?
The biggest communities are in the UK, Canada, the United States and Australia, with members across most towns and cities in all four. The site is in English and prices are in pounds.
How do you make money?
Joining and browsing are free, and that isn't a trial. We make money when members choose to upgrade to VIP or VIP+ for unlimited messaging and better visibility. We don't sell your data and we don't run ads at you.
See where the connection goes
Free to join, free to browse, and no need to know what you're looking for.