Features
Everything you can do here
A free account is a real account, not a trial. Below is exactly what you get without paying, and exactly what changes if you upgrade.
Wherever you already are
One account, every device.
Desktop
Full experience in any browser.
All marketsMobile web
Add it to your home screen. Works offline.
All marketsiPhone and iPad
Native app on the App Store.
Selected marketsAndroid
Native app on Google Play.
Selected marketsThree ways to be here
Start free. Move up only if the limits start to annoy you.
The filters are the part most people upgrade for. They're how you search by age and distance if you're after mature lesbian dating, and how you find women by what they're actually into if you're here for lesbian BDSM dating.
Free forever
Classic
- Build a full profile and browse everyone on the platform
- Daily match suggestions picked for you
- Post updates and photos, comment on articles and posts
- Join polls and quizzes
- Send a set number of messages a day
- Read and reply to any VIP or VIP+ member who writes to you
- Free ID verification, and admin validation if you'd rather not send documents
- Earn badges: Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob, Most Popular
Most popular
VIP
Everything in Classic, plus:
- Message as much as you like, whenever you like
- Advanced search: city, distance, experience, what she's open to
- Members-only chat rooms
- Private group chats for up to 50 people
- Rewind a swipe you regret
- See everyone who likes you
- Your comments surface higher in feeds
Top tier
VIP+
Everything in VIP, plus:
- A curated pool of premium matches
- Your messages and likes land first
- Boosted visibility to active members near you
- Top of the stack in every daily match list
- Super Match add-on for the ones you really want to reach
Side by side
The whole list, nothing hidden.
| Feature | Classic | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Build a profile and browse | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Post updates, photos and comments | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Polls and quizzes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Daily message allowance | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Reply to VIP and VIP+ members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Admin profile validation | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Unlimited messaging | No | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats, up to 50 | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind a swipe | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Priority comment placement | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Priority message and like placement | No | No | Yes |
| Boosted profile visibility | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Super Match add-on | No | No | Yes |
How the matching works
No mystery, no magic.
Every day you get a set of suggestions. They're picked on what you've told us and how you both behave on the site, not on who paid the most.
The algorithm weighs these:
- Age range you're after
- Gender identity and preference
- How near she is
- How recently she was active
- What she's looking for: casual, long term, friendship
- Drinking and smoking
- Sports, hobbies and niche interests
- Beliefs and values
Then it's over to you. The algorithm makes the introduction. It can't make her fancy you. A good photo and a first message that isn't "hey" will do more than any setting on this page. Plenty of people skip the cold opener entirely and start in the chat rooms and group chats instead.
Badges, and why they matter
Earned, not bought.
Badges are the quickest way to tell who's real and who's actually turning up. You earn them by using the site, and everyone can see them.
Verified
You've completed free ID verification, or had your profile validated by our team.
What she readsShe's talking to a real person, not a photo scraped off Instagram.
Chatterbox
You reply, and you reply properly.
What she readsMessaging you isn't going to be a dead end.
Heartthrob
Plenty of members have liked your profile.
What she readsOther women are interested. That's a decent signal.
Most Popular
You're among the most engaged-with members in your area.
What she readsYou're active, and worth getting in early with.
Questions about features
Pricing detail lives on the pricing page.
Is Lesbian Flings free to use?
Yes. A Classic account costs nothing and it isn't a trial. You can build a profile, browse everyone, get daily matches, earn badges, verify your ID and send a set number of messages a day, for free, indefinitely.
What's the difference between VIP and VIP+?
VIP removes the limits: unlimited messaging, advanced search, chat rooms, group chats and seeing who likes you. VIP+ adds visibility on top, so your profile leads match stacks, your messages land first, and you can send Super Matches.
Do I need the app?
No. Everything works in a browser on any device, and the mobile site installs to your home screen if you want it there. Native iPhone and Android apps are available in selected markets.
What is a Super Match?
A highlighted message that arrives in a distinctive colour at the top of her inbox, with your profile shown first. It's a purchasable add-on for VIP+ members, for when you want to make a bold move on someone specific.
How does the matching work?
The algorithm weighs age, location, activity, what each of you is looking for, lifestyle and interests, then suggests women daily. It creates the opportunity. What happens after that is down to the two of you.
Can I verify without sending ID documents?
Yes. Admin profile validation is a manual review by our team that gets you a validation badge without submitting sensitive documents. Free ID verification is also available if you'd rather have the blue tick.