Community · 18+
The part that turns a match into a meeting
Chat rooms, group chats, a feed and a rating system that keeps everyone honest. The social side is why people here actually talk to each other.
- 18+ only
- Human moderation, 24/7
- Free to post and comment
- ODDA member
Do people here actually meet up?
Yes, and the social side is usually why. Chat rooms, group chats, posts and polls give people a reason to talk before anyone suggests a drink, which is the step most dating apps skip. Posting and commenting are free on every account. Chat rooms and group chats come with VIP.
Four places conversations start
None of them is a cold first message.
Chat rooms
Members-only rooms where conversations run all day. Easier than a cold first message, and you learn how somebody actually talks.
Group chats
Private groups of up to fifty. Local groups, interest groups, and the ones that exist for no reason at all.
The feed
Members post updates and photos and comment on each other's. Free on every account, including a Classic one.
Polls and quizzes
Low-effort ways to say something about yourself without writing an essay. Free, and surprisingly good at starting conversations.
One community, several front doors
A niche site lives or dies on whether anyone is actually there.
Members join through Lesbian Flings and through partner sites, and everyone lands in the same lesbian community. Whichever door somebody came through, they only ever see their own brand. You see Lesbian Flings and nothing else.
That is why the numbers hold up in ordinary towns rather than only in cities, and why women near you is a statement rather than a hope.
How members keep each other honest
Four things the big apps mostly do not do.
Questions about the community
Support is staffed 24/7 if yours isn't here.
Do people on Lesbian Flings actually meet up?
Yes, and the parts of the site that make that likely are the social ones rather than the matching ones. Chat rooms, group chats, posts, polls and comments give people a reason to talk before anyone suggests a drink, which is usually what turns a match into a meeting.
What is in the community side of the site?
Members-only chat rooms, private group chats for up to fifty people, a feed where members post updates and photos, comments on posts and articles, and polls and quizzes. Posting, commenting and joining polls are free.
What are member ratings?
After an interaction you can rate it up or down in one tap. Everyone carries a score built from those ratings, and you can read somebody's before you send them anything. It is the community holding itself honest rather than moderators doing all of it.
Are the group chats moderated?
Yes. Real moderators work around the clock, systems flag problems and a person makes the decision. Reporting takes one tap and every report reaches a human, including at three in the morning.
Do I have to join in?
No. Plenty of members only ever use search and messages. The community side is there when you want it, and invisible when you do not.
Is it free?
Posting, commenting, polls and quizzes are free on a Classic account. Members-only chat rooms and private group chats come with VIP.