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Lesbian dating in the USA

Texas is our largest state community, ahead of California, New York and Florida. Houston, Dallas and San Antonio between them make the Texas triangle the busiest corner of the country.

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What is Lesbian Flings?

Lesbian Flings is an adult dating site for women who like women, with members in every US state. Join free, browse women near you, and message the ones you like. No need to decide upfront what you are looking for.

Who it's for
Adult women who like women, 18 and over. Every type, at every age. The over-forties are one of the busiest groups here.
What it costs
Nothing to join, nothing to browse. Upgrade only if you want to.
What you're looking for
A date, a fling, a relationship, a friend, or still deciding. All fine.

Where women are in the USA

Busiest first. Plenty of smaller places too.

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Houston
PhiladelphiaSee Philadelphia
Dallas
Atlanta
San Antonio
Chicago
Columbus
Los Angeles
Las Vegas
Brooklyn
Memphis

Strongest regions

  • Texas
  • California
  • New York
  • Florida
  • Ohio
  • Georgia

We set the standard. Others catch up.

Four things we built first.

A person makes the call

Systems flag it. A real moderator decides. Not an algorithm working alone.

Members rate each other

You can read how she's rated before you send a message.

You'll know if she's read it

No sitting there wondering. Move on, or keep going.

Someone's always on

Report something at 3am and a person looks at it.

Questions about the USA

More on safety and features.

Is Lesbian Flings free to use in the US?

Yes. A Classic account is free and does not expire. You can build a profile, browse the whole community, get daily matches and message members every day without paying. Upgrades are optional and priced in pounds.

Which US cities have the most members?

New York leads, then Houston, Philadelphia and Dallas. By state, Texas is the largest community, ahead of California, New York and Florida.

Is this a lesbian app or a hookup app?

Both, and neither exclusively. Some women here want a relationship, some want something casual, some want friends. You choose, and you can change your mind.

What happens if someone behaves badly?

Block them and they lose all contact with you immediately. Report them and a human moderator reviews it, any hour of the day. Every member also carries a rating built from how they treat people.

Meet women in the USA

Free to join, free to browse, and no need to know what you're looking for yet.